It might sound cold but at the end of the day, if we go too far toward the other, we give up too much of ourselves. There is...
Stay on your side of the line: It might sound cold but at the end of the day, if we go too far toward the other, we give up too much of ourselves. There is your universe and there is the other's and then there is a narrow elipses (in the venn diagram) where your worlds coalesce or collide. The better you feel on your own with your own pleasures and joys, the more you can connect healthfully with the other. I shudder whenever I hear a man or woman say "I gave everything to the relationship", why? There are many other realms of human existence to give to, but of course through relating we are alive and can develop. I am available for sessions to explore the traps and treasures of all kinds of relationships www.therapywithbrinda.com
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Stay on your side of the line:
It might sound cold but at the end of the day, if we go too far toward the other, we give up too much of ourselves. There is your universe and there is the other's and then there is a narrow elipses (in the venn diagram) where your worlds coalesce or collide. The better you feel on your own with your own pleasures and joys, the more you can connect healthfully with the other. I shudder whenever I hear a man or woman say "I gave everything to the relationship", why? There are many other realms of human existence to give to, but of course through relating we are alive and can develop. I am available for sessions to explore the traps and treasures of all kinds of relationships www.therapywithbrinda.commitdiskutieren