Do these phrases resonate with you:

"His ex was very jealous, he’s afraid I’ll be the same"
"He had a difficult childhood, he’s afraid of being a father himself"
"He tells me I’d better look for someone better than him, because he doesn’t know if he’s capable of loving again"
"He tells me that he was very hurt by his last relationship"
"He needs to think, he’s lost"

Everyone has a more or less painful past.
You want to be understanding and not force him to love you.
But at the same time, you don’t want to hope for nothing.
How can you tell if it’s a real fear or just an excuse?

This article will analyse the different possible cases.

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